.The Wind of Change.

Change is something I’m sure most people experience but from my own occurrences it’s quite the disappointment when individuals change in ways that you never expected them to and for the worst. Throughout the past few years I’ve had friendships blossom and seen too many wilt away.

Its one of the most wonderful things when somebody comes into your life and once they are their you don’t know how you ever lived without them, thought this makes it even harder when a time comes and they actually do leave your life and your left feeling uncompleted and miserable. When an incident like this occurs most commonly you can feel like the worlds come tumbling down but keep in mind that it certainly hasn’t and there are people who will help you and be there to offer advice and at some stage, although it may seem hard to imagine at the time, another person will come and take there place eventually and you will once again be content yet again.

People are influenced by the others around them, some effected more than others and this brings upon quite a lot of change, ive lost friends in the past when they have been around people with different attitudes and morals then myself and they eventually took on there likes which later cause much controversy and differentiated us majorly.
Ive had relationships fail when the person had been faking their real attitudes and personality and when their true self came out it was most spiteful and arrogant, I act myself around others and I have quite a lot of confidence but I understand not everyone like this but I strongly recommend to anyone not to take on the persona of someone else because therefore people wont like who they really are but what there pretending to be and never will they have true friends.
Of corse, change isn’t always for the worst, there have been occasions where I may have known someone in the past and not particularly got along with them but meet them a few years down the track only to find out they had changed and we shared much in common.
I accept the fact that every person is an individual and entitled to their own opinions and because of this i get along rather swell with most and as old as the quote is ''if you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all'' seriously go by it and it will save you so much trouble.

In conclusion to these ever long paragraphs of my babble, i think that with change must comes acceptance as everybody is entitled to there own opinions and morals but for those of you who let others change who you are and how you act or even who you make acquaintance with, take a serious reality check and don't let it happen or your going to end up regretting it.